Intended Audience: Mature
Tweens and up
Genre: Memoir
Notes for Parents: Some
mature content
The Back Cover
At
the tender age of 15, Candice Kirkbride's life changed forever. Happiness is at
the front of her mind everyday despite the challenges she continues to face.
She does not want to be defined by that one fateful night. She has dedicated
herself to inspiring others to find happiness in their life. Candice's message
touches each person differently. Whether it's through her story of recovery,
overcoming adversity or forgiving those who have wronged her, she has
experienced so much in her young life. Life story, poems and strategies, this
book will help inspire you to changed your life as Candice has hers.
What the cover doesn’t tell you:
The
author was struck by a car driven by an intoxicated driver and sustained
serious head injuries as a result. Now, more than 15 years after her accident,
she writes about her injuries, her recovery, and the new person she
has become. This book is self-published.
What’s good?
This
is an important story about a young woman’s journey of recovery after a
traumatic brain injury. Compelling and emotional, the author describes with
honesty the stark realities she had to face immediately after the accident, and
the new life she has had to acclimate to as a result. While she has met the
enormous challenges with determination and resiliency, her responses to situations
weren't always perfect. Often her frustration, confusion, and defiance got
the best of her. Each chapter begins with one of the author’s original poems. A
small selection of photographs is included. There are sad parts, and funny
parts, and some astute observances about the importance of having a strong
support group.
Best Part: "Love life
because life loves you!"
What isn’t good?
For
the most part the story is chronological, so when the author back-tracked or
jumped forward occasionally, I found it a bit disorientating. I also found myself
wanting more details about how other people were reacting to her, but
understandably she stuck to only telling her side of the story.
Worst part: There are some punctuation
errors and missing words that should have been caught in the editing process.
Recommendation ☺☺☺☻☻
(3/5)
This
is a fast, accessible, easy-to-read memoir that is revealing without being too
graphic. It serves as a mild cautionary tale for teens, as well as an
inspirational story of strength and courage. It’s also a powerful illustration
of how fragile the human brain can be. The author’s poetry is simple and quite
beautiful, and her storytelling will engage teens and adults alike.
Recommended.
Kirkbride, Candice C., Changed by the Rain: Life after a Brain Injury. Bloomington, IN: iUniverse, 2016.