It's Not Me, It's You by Stephanie Kate Strohm

Pages: 275

Intended Audience: Teens and mature tweens

Genre: Romance / Humor

Notes for Parents: Some mature content

The Back Cover

There’s no suitable summary on the back cover so this is from the author’s website:

Avery Dennis is a high school senior and one of the most popular girls in her class. But a majorly public breakup with the guy she's been dating causes some disastrous waves. It is right before prom and Avery no longer has the perfect date. She runs the prom committee, how could she not show up with somebody?

Post-breakup, Avery gets to thinking about all of the guys that she has ever dated. How come none of those relationships ever worked out? Could it be her fault? Avery decides to investigate. In history class she's learning about this method of record-keeping called "oral history" and she has a report due. So Avery decides to go directly to the source. Avery tracks down all of the guys she's ever dated, and uses that information along with her friends, family, and even teachers’ thoughts, to compile a total account of her dating history. Avery discovers some surprises about herself and the guys she's spent time with just in time for prom night.

What the cover doesn’t tell you:

The story is written in an unconventional format, in what the author (or rather, the main character) describes as an oral history. It’s almost like a script (but with no description of action).

What’s good?

Avery Dennis is a surprise. At first she seems like the stereotypical dumb blonde or self-obsessed mean girl as she introduces an oral history project that focusses on – no surprise – herself! However, while Avery is popular, pretty, and rich, she is also driven, confident, smart, and nice to everyone (even her nemesis, Bizzy). After her breakup right before prom, she sets out on a journey of self-discovery and learns about herself through the observations of her friends, family, and teachers as they weigh in on her distinguished list of relationships. The plot itself is nothing new, but the format gives it a fresh feel, and the well-drawn characters are an absolute delight. The unusual format makes it easy to read, and the rich vocabulary and countless pop culture references makes it a ton of fun.

Best Part: The secondary characters are fantastic, especially Coco and Hutch.

What isn’t good?

I knew how it was going to end about 30 pages in. Character growth is definitely given more attention than plot development. But even so, there wasn’t much depth to the characters either. The main character, Avery, definitely goes through a transformation as the story progresses, but we don’t get a sense of her or anyone’s history beyond the superficial.

Worst part: All. The. Periods.

Recommendation ☺☺☺☻☻ (3/5)

It was cute. This is a light, humorous, romantic story. The writing is good, the characters are great, but the story is predictable. Tons of young adult novels are also great reads for adults, but this isn’t one of them. I think to appreciate the problems of this particular teenage girl, you probably have to be a teenager, so I’m going to highly recommend this to any teens looking for a quick and witty read.

Strohm, Stephanie Kate. It’s Not Me, It’s You. New York: Point, 2016.